思念

在七彩的人生中，思念是最美丽的一色；在人生的五味里，思念是最芬芳的一味．品味思念，就是品味人生． 　　

思念，是一份缠绵，是一份牵挂，是一份心灵的维系，是一份情感的交融． 　　

思念，是一坛愈久愈香的玉液琼浆，是一声挂在心壁上丁当作响的真挚祝愿，是一朵萦绕梦境的多彩祥云． 　　

心中对人有所思念，是一种疼痛也是一种幸福；被人思念，有一种心酸更有一种甜蜜．

思念是指路的灯，没人思念和无所思念的人是不是容易迷失方向？ 　　

面对一天天多起来的思念，我们一天天走向成熟． 　　

思念，是伴随着我们成长的音符，时时刻刻刻都充满了我们的每一行脚印,每一份思念和每一级台阶.　　

品味思念......　　

思念是水,是酒,把彼此共鸣的心融进深海里酝酿;

思念是丝,是线,无论飞得多高多远,心底都会有思念的意境.　　

在寒冷的冬夜,思念给我们温暖;在失意的日子里,思念给我们祈盼和力量,梦中,思念是载归的船.　　思念中的人也许孤单,但决不孤独;思念的人也许忧愁,但永不忧伤;

思念的人也许清苦,但她的心中永远燃烧着欢乐的火焰,春夏秋冬的梦里永远草长鸢飞,百花怒放......　　品味思念,在浅浅深深短短长长的思念里,我平凡的人生一天天走向圆满......　　

思念,能够让时间变快;思念,能够让距离变短;思念,让我感觉到处处充满鲜花,阳光,慈爱和甘泉!　　思念,让我回眸,回味无穷,更使我大步朝前走,大步奔向幸福的人生之巅!

作者：冄朦朧

Capricorn is Coffee??

This short story i find it very nice from one of my friend and is my astrology also. So i post it out.
Do you agree with this??

魔羯座是咖啡，初见魔羯的人很容易被他阴沉执着的表现所慑他是严谨的、不茍言笑的、实事求是的，常会给人严肃不可冒犯的感觉，就像黑咖啡初碰味蕾时的苦涩难当。但认识久了，你会了解到，他其实是很散漫、叛逆、想要搞怪的家伙。他是严谨没错，对于他想得到的学位、工作、爱情，他绝对会愿意牺牲自己的时间精力，锱铢必较、兢兢业业去争取，他是固执地，将人生当咖啡来淬取烹煮。但学位、工作、爱情之外，他便是散漫的。所以可以常见他的工作室像重创后的灾区，他的健康永远在拉警报。魔羯座的父母永远啰唆，却愿意将所以金钱花费在小孩的要求，魔羯座的情人永远口拙，却愿意将全部时间花费在伴侣的身上。他们是深沉忧郁的，却没有人关心不行。他绝对不是你想的独行侠，因为孤独时第一个会躲在棉被里哭的一定是他。他需要大量的关心和问候，就像糖和奶精去滋润他的生活。他是咖啡，却没办法一个人喝咖啡，太过自卑和自大的他，一个人时常会莫名厌恶自己。他看来冷酷，却只是他的保护色。一但渗入感情，他绝对愿意为伴侣放下身段。不要被他的道貌岸然所唬，他的异想世界绝对超乎你的尺度。有空好好关心你的魔羯朋友，他对人的信任是和陪在他身边的时间长短成正比的。当他认定你的时候，你就是他一辈子的投资。平时默默的他，绝对在你需要帮助的时候，伸出第一只援手。因为他是咖啡，要等待他回甘，请先得忍受他刚入口时的苦涩。

The Salty Coffee

He met her at a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after her, while he was so normal, nobody paid attention to him.
At the end of the party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised but due to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, and she thought to herself, "Please, let me go home..."
Suddenly he asked the waiter, "Would you please give me some salt? I'd like to put it in my coffee." Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously, "Why you have this hobby?" He replied, "When I was a little boy, I lived near the sea, I liked playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there." While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched. That's his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home... Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family.
That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story. They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty coffee! Then the story was just like every beautiful love story, the princess married to the prince, and then they were living the happy life... And, every time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee, as she knew that's the way he liked it.
After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said, "My dearest, please forgive me, forgive my whole life's lie. This was the only lie I said to you---the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt. It was hard for me to change so I just went ahead. I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything... Now I'm dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth, I don't like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste... But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life, even though I have to drink the salty coffee again."
Her tears made the letter totally wet. Someday, someone asked her, "What's the taste of salty coffee?" She replied, "It's sweet."
Pass this to everyone because love is not to forget but to forgive, not to see but understand, not to hear but to listen, not to let go but HOLD ON!!!!

杯子和水的故事

杯子:我寂寞,我需要水,给我点水吧.

主人:好吧,拥有了你想要的水,你就不寂寞了吧?

杯子:应该是吧.

主人把开水倒进了杯子里.水很热,杯子感觉到自己快要被融化了,杯子想,这就是爱情的力量吧.

水变温了,杯子感觉很舒服,杯子想,这就是生活的感觉吧. 水变凉了,杯子害怕了,怕他什么也不知道,杯子想,这就是失去的滋味吧. 水凉透了,杯子绝望了,也许这就是缘分的杰作吧.

杯子:主人,快把水倒出去,我不需要了.

主人不在.杯子感觉到自己压抑死了,可恶的水,冰凉的,放在心里,感觉好难受.
杯子奋力一晃,水终于走出了杯子的心里,杯子好开心,突然,杯子掉在了地上. 杯子碎了,临死前,他看见了,他心里的每一个地方都有水的痕迹!他才知道,他爱水,可是,他再也无法完整的把水放在心里了.
杯子哭了,他的眼泪和水融在了一起,奢望能用最后的力量再去爱水一次.
主人捡着杯子的碎片,一片割破了他的手指,指尖有血......

杯子笑了,爱情啊,到底是什么? 难道只有经历了痛苦才知道去珍惜吗?
杯子笑了,爱情啊,到底是什么? 难道要到一切都无法挽回才说放弃吗?
杯子笑了,爱情啊,到底是什么......

Love ?

What is Love? Love , which is the bond of perfection. Forgive, Forgave, Forgiven.

Love can be mysterious, magical, complex, difficult, imaginary, thought-provoking, inspirational, intuitional, joyous, immeasurable, ecstasy, and undefinable.

Love can be patient, love is kind.

Love is to like with a great intensity.
True love has a foundation of integrity, respect, faith and trust.

Love is the force that brings about unity and harmony.
Although love is at the root of our basic nature,
Love for another human being must be cultivated.

It takes time for Love to mature.

爱是什么？难遇的是两情相悦、心有灵犀，难求的是相守到老、不离不弃。

爱是什么？是惜缘，是惜福，是惜时。

爱是什么？两人相见时无言而会心的微笑，无须表白就领会对方想要什么。

有一种爱只能远望，

有一种爱注定成传奇，

有一种爱叫做痛，

有一种爱叫放弃，

有一种爱叫忍让。

爱,对我说 不在乎地位，不看重钱财，不挑剔容貌，只要一份真情，一颗真心，只要两情相悦，一心一意。我不相信一见钟情。更不相信这样的感情会长久。平凡生活，也可 以创造简单的幸福，端看双方如何去看待。

"I love You and that's the beginning of everything."
I love you. Yeah! YOU!

寂寞得不想说话

寂寞得我不想说话，情愿一个人静静的呆着，傻傻的瞪着窗外，像个丢了魂的傻瓜。生活中有太多的无奈和废话，看着挂在网端如星星般闪烁的妳。可就是没想说话，只因我有太多太多的欲望无法对妳倾吐，太多太多的悲喜无法说出口。就情愿这样一个人默默的呆着，细想着自己的心事与寂寞。也许，孤独的灵魂都是这样。

不喜欢和太多人呆在一起，情愿远远的观望着，欣赏着别人的精彩。在心底静静品味人生的喜怒哀乐。想想他人的生活和自己的故事，也许，一切就似是电视剧中演绎般的起起落落。只不过编剧，把它给夸张了，给浓缩罢了。这时候有那么一首歌，刘德华唱的："不喜欢孤独"，却又害怕两个人相处，这分明是一种痛苦。在人多时候最沉默，笑容也寂寞。

一个人，静静的走在繁华的街头，打开手机里的音乐，随心随意的听着，看着匆匆擦边而过的人流与车流 默默的想已渐发的心事。时而忧郁，时而开心，像个傻傻的病人。看着人群匆匆的步走，细想着别人是什么样的一种心情，或又会是什么样的一种生活。还有时不时走过来的美女，有身材好的，性感的，总会看了又看，扭过头来默默的送她远去。但绝不想与她搭话，我没那么无聊，自认为也是一个有品位的男子。

非是情溥，只因情太多，命运总被生活随意的操弄，在这寂寞人间，心无法干净的像水一样，有太多的欲望让你我迷惑，太多的无奈把你我折磨。不想了，也不写了，此刻心情沉静，似明月潜入水底，独自忧伤。

寂寞得不想再说话。

Irish coffee

First time know this irish coffe is from one of my friend in Tawau. She told me this coffee have an amazing and touching story then post me a actical and when i read it, i found out is a nice story. If got chance will going to try have a this coffee.

Irish coffee有个美丽爱情传说。也是Irish coffee的由来。
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相传爱尔兰咖啡是都柏林机场的一个酒保所创，他与一位空姐邂逅并一见钟情，觉得她就像浓香而醇美的Irish whisky。
可是空姐每次只喝咖啡，而从不点鸡尾酒。
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于是酒保为空姐发明了一种以Irish whisky和咖啡结合而成的Irish coffee ，并且专做了两份不同的单子，特让空姐成为第一位点到爱尔兰咖啡的客人。
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一直等待了一年，空姐才发现了单子上的爱尔兰咖啡，酒保也终于为他心爱的空姐煮了第一杯爱尔兰咖啡。
当时酒保因为激动而留下了眼泪，怕被空姐看到他用手指把眼泪抹掉，然后偷偷地在杯口画了一圈.所以Irish coffee是带着思念压抑很久以后所发酵出来的味道的。Irish coffee专用杯有两条金色的细线。最下面一条，是whisky的位置，要用爱尔兰whisky。而上面一条是咖啡的位置，用蓝山咖啡，巴西咖啡。然后在最上层放上奶油。
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思念在杯底发酵。是一种思念的味道吧！

恋爱了，还是失恋了？

一对旧情侣相聚。。。在一间气氛很好的餐厅用餐。。。然后他们复合了。。。
我想因为彼此有情，所以才能再度在一起吧。。然而。。。一天。。。
男的问女的。。。男生： 为什么你会回到我身边？女生： 因为我喜欢你。。。而且我们很合适啊。。。男生： 。。。 。。。 （无语)。可是内心里，他在嘶喊着... 为什么。。。为什么不是为了爱？ 爱情不是情侣间最重要的元素吗？就像咖啡和牛奶是很合适的组合，可是咖啡可以是咖啡，牛奶也可以是牛奶而已。。和与分并不重要。。。咖啡牛奶也能和其他的东西搭配啊。。。爱情应该是两个人时是甜蜜、恩爱。。。组织家庭后是温馨、幸福。。。直到白发斑斑彼此依然是对方的宝。。。此时他。。。是恋爱了，还是失恋了？

爱一个人

爱一个人，要了解，也要开解；
要道歉，也要道谢；
要认错，也要改错；
要体贴，也要体谅；
是接受，而不是忍受；
是宽容，而不是纵容；
是支持，而不是支配；
是慰问，而不是质问；
是倾诉，而不是控诉；
是难忘，而不是遗忘；
是彼此交流，而不是凡事交代；
是为对方默默祈求， 而不是向对方诸多要求；
可以浪漫，但不要浪费；
可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

我好想妳

这么多天没见 可我总想起妳声音我耳边
今天心情好吗?否不愉快?
要一切看得开 世界没有太坏
虽然不妳身边 我心有一条线 连着妳 牵着妳
我好想妳 想到愿意相信
我好想妳 想到不能呼吸
想到全身没力气 没有关系
我就闭上了眼睛 妳这里
别忘记 我们约定 一直都我心里
不管妳哪里 不要忘了我有多么爱妳
不要忘了吃饭 不管有多忙
不要忘了开车时候 一定要往前看
其实我真很快乐 有妳一直守候 一直走到了以后 都挽着妳手
虽然不妳身边 但我妳心里面
我愿意 等着妳
不管妳哪里 不要忘了我有多么爱
妳我一直这里 不要忘了我有多么爱妳

I Miss You

我最亲爱的

发现我们 电话里常常沉默了
想看电影 也不再相同了
你眼神 虽然温柔
却像另一个人 面前那样陌生
如果我能穿着 你最不喜欢颜色
嘴里哼着你 最不爱听情歌
你能不能 对我再冷漠一点呢
至少让我以为 你不再爱我了
亲爱 为什么你还不敢承认呢
亲爱 我们都脆弱人
亲爱 听时间话放开手
别感伤应该感动
我最亲爱亲爱
为什么你还不敢承认呢
亲爱 我们都脆弱人
亲爱 别牵着没感觉手
(真)不怪你 我太爱你 才说不出口
亲爱 我也不相信心会疲倦
亲爱 我们别再骗自己了
亲爱 听时间话放开手
别感伤 应该感动
我们都记得 相爱最诚实这一刻
对我说你不爱我 谁泪都别流
如果能重来一次 请别再这样宠爱我
我太幸福 就会忘了 爱总有慢慢变化时候
我最亲爱

徐若瑄-我最亲爱的

Love

Love is amazing feeling. Love can be funny or sad.Romantic or Painful.
What love does to your mind?
Recently i in love, my relationship with the one that i love before.
Dad said to me, A good house didnt eat back the glass (chinese).
Am i right i made this decision.?

Story from start, previously i always walked around here and there to finding an "answer".
But the answer that i found out not really that i want.
1 years 3 months later , i decide went to kl and meet her out. That day 18 May, We meet togther at TGI Friday. I wait her almost 1 hour the Curve not couse she late came just i went there early abit. Then i go to MPH read book. She got message me isnt confirm we meet and she sms me again when i in MPH.

Finally we meet out in the centrel of the curve and we took our dinner. When saw her, i feel like that have a familiar feeling.
We have a dinner after that we have a movie.
Dinner that time, she asked how am i ? what going on why will found her out. I also ask her isn't got bf. When she told me she got before and just broken few weeks ago, that time my heart very painful but i also dont know why? Isn't mean that i still love her? I still care on her?

We took our dinner around 1 hour and we have a walk coz our movie is at 11pm.
Like a couple that was doing. That time i really didn't think (meaning) we will back together again. I just want to meet out a old friend.
After movie, she send me home.
Next day morning, she found me out for breakfast.That is Weask day i got went to temple to pai pai in early morning.

I'm back S'pore then she in KL. We got chatting in msn. She told me that she dont like man anymore. Of couse i know she just talk only. I just a friend at that time, asking why she think like that and i keep kidding with her said that mean i don't have second chance to date her back.

When that time she told me she want come to Singapore to found me and visit Singapore.
That time I just think she come only visit but at last we together again.

If want to write will be a long long story to write in
But Love this kind of thing really can't control when it coming then coming we also can't defense
So now we together again
I hope this will be last forever.
But really hurt coz she said i just suit to her.
i really care this word. Suit isn't mean love also....
if said like too bad so sad...

Only you know what makes you a good lover and a good partner, so be honest with yourself and you'll soon recognize it.

End...

LoveLess

Act 1
Infinite in Mystery is the gift of the godness
We seek it thus, and take to the sky.

Rippies from on the water's surface,
The wandering soul know rest.

Loveless. Act1

Life is that simple? not one will know it. It can be simple but also complication. Everyday all the people around us act their character.
Everyday doing the same thing, wake up go to work, come back don't know what time. Sometime early back also 8 something, late will be 1115pm. How come Life will that simple?
Some of the times, really want to give up everything in my life.
So tired to acting in this character. 我想哭,不敢哭,怎么哭.

but 不要因为失去而哭，应该为经曾雍有而笑
What should i do, what suppose i do, am i doing a wrong decision.
But someone said like this.
Dream what you want to dream?
Go where you want to go ?
Be What you want to be?

Because we just have only one life and one chance to do all the thing you want to do.